so kiss me goodbye because im defying gravity

somewhere along our life's journey, we lose people close to our hearts.not the kind who pass away in this world, because that is beyond our control. the kind of people im talking about here are those who chose to leave us for reasons we may not understand yet, but definitely because its part of the plan.

now when i was younger and immature, i tend to sulk at these partings.it took me a long time to finally get over it. i had separation anxiety.big time.

going through life experiences like these has definitely made me a stronger person.reading books and having constant dialogues with sensible people has also helped me a lot in managing difficult situations.

now i realized that we really should not feel bad about the people who leave us.how about putting yourself in their shoes and try to see things based from their perspective? yes, they chose to leave because its the best thing to do. we may not understand it yet when the pain is still fresh, but someday it will all make sense. and the most important thing i learned is that dont force people to stay when they've already made a decision to go. in fact, you should initiate it when you begin to notice that they are not happy anymore. they will love you more for that, trust me. i am proud to say that i am beginning to master this it is almost an art.

so i thank those who left, for the memory they have left behind. and the moments shared with them.but more importantly, for the lessons learned and for taking part in making me a better person.