Tuesday, July 29

how we met

Life’s surprises indeed shows up when we least expect them.


I was in Tawi-Tawi and the flight to Zamboanga was cancelled that day. I did not want to ride the ship because I was so freaking afraid of the big waves, so we decided to wait for the next day’s flight. During the afternoon, my officemate told me that there is no guarantee for the flight tomorrow since the aircraft is still busted, “so we really have to take the ship leaving tonight,” ordered this officemate of mine. Remember, I am from Luzon, used to land travel and doesn’t know how to “claw-kick” (read: ice age 2). So after much prodding, he was able to “coerce” me to take the damned ship. I imagined myself being tortured by sinking thoughts from 6pm to 10am the following day. That is sixteen hours of riding this monster of steel in open sea.


When we were on our way to our cabin, a guy in red polo shirt said in an excited voice, “Ui, nandito din pala kayo!” Close tayo?, i thought to myself। But of course I did not say that loud so I just ignored him. My officemate recognized him and told me he is one of the supposed seair passengers that day. So?


We reached our teeny-weeny, cramped and claustrophobia-inducing cabin and started to make ourselves comfortable. I saw this trolley bag placed on top of the bed I wanted since it’s near the power outlet. Hmmm..must be an old lady, naka-trolley eh,” I thought to myself. Then I realized, where the hell is the old lady? Gumagala na agad? Whew.


Surprise!


The old lady turned out to be the feeling-close-guy-in-the-red-polo-shirt.


Naku, patay na. Andito na si filingero. He started making friends with my officemate, and within seconds they were laughing their lungs out like some old neighbors sharing a private joke. Their laughter was so infectious that I later joined them in their conversation.


He turned out to be a funny yet sensitive guy. He loves his mother so much. Dun ako natuwa. He has this framed picture of himself and his mom, and both of them were smiling but with eyes closed. I asked him why and he said, “Sabi ko sa mama ko, pikit tayo ma ha? Pumikit naman!” Haha.


He is so funny you wouldn’t realize you’re laughing your lungs out hanggang kita na ngalangala mo! And he made sense, not the kind of pagpapatawa from bastos jokes or making fun of people. He has this engaging personality that would really make you listen to him when he talks. And he knows how to listen when its your time to talk. He would listen intently, and lets you finish your drama first before making any comments. And comments he made! He is brutally honest but also makes sure that when he let it out, no one’s gonna feel hurt. He would let you know of his comments in a calculated, funny way that tells you something like “yeah, you have such a big mouth but hey, that’s not a big deal.”


Surprise!Surprise!


I did not realize it but I started to really enjoy his presence. His voice, the way his dimples would show up every time he would smile, his booming laughter, and the way he stared when he wanted to make a point. And he is sweet! Akalain mo yun? He invited me to go down the lower deck for coffee, and while we were out talking while sitting near the railings, he made kwento all the time so I would not get freaked out with the waves. I even enjoyed the sight of fishing boats which were out in the cold night. They looked like fireflies with their lights on, it seemed like a fiesta in the open sea!


We talked about almost everything, never running out of ideas. His work, how he was such an ass in ateneo during college, his ex-girlfriend and her father, his mom, his dogs… I also told him about my work, my family, and my less-than-popular opinions on marriage and kids. We realized there have been a lot of similarities in our lives that we started to call each other copier! whenever there is something related between us.


He loved my toes, I enjoyed watching him sleep, hearing him snore. He calls me shark, I call him roach. I am afraid of the water and therefore the sharks, and he with cockroaches.


It felt so damn right. Like we were a pair of your old, comfortable shoes.


Finally, the ship docked in Zambo at around 10am. He was like a child when he said, “basta ha, text text ha?Pag hindi ka nag-reply I’ll cut your head!”


“Sir, yes sir!”


My officemate and I proceeded to the airport to reimburse our tickets in Seair. When we were inside the jeepney on our way back to where we were staying in Zambo, I received a text from him,


From <+63917…> at 11:59 AM 7/11/2008 via Windows XP with SP2
Hay tumibok c btman


He calls his heart batman.



Wednesday, July 23

i wish i am a...

starbucks flask.




he gave me his 3 year old mug, i gave him this. :)

i love him.

the trip that did it

all the universe conspired for adrian. :)

Monday, July 21

i am

getting married. :)

Friday, July 18

he gave me starfish and more =)

happiness.


Tuesday, July 15

adrian.



I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;
so I love you because I know no other way
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than this: where I does not exist, nor you,
so close that your hand on my chest is my hand,
so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.

Saturday, July 12

why armm continues to survive amidst the poverty

because there are mothers who will do anything for their children


because there are kids who help the family in their own little way



because their lands are fertile


Thursday, July 10

the plane was delayed, so...

to the beach!




Wednesday, July 9

sandbar

environment-friendly vandalism.hehe. =)


sandbar at dusk

kuya manny's beach haus!naks :)


with kuya manny.sarap talaga tumakas sa ofis!nyahaha. :)


ayun lang. :)

sarap siguro mag-breakfast dito while watching the sun rise... or lounging during sunset :)



lusong na! :)


ganda ng shells dito :)

Tuesday, July 8

romancing the waters of tawi-tawi

life here is all about the sea


beach house :)


the wind was so strong kaya sumadsad ung boat sa may haus.the folks were trying to keep it away pero nasira ng konti yung bakod ng bahay.tsk.


a star fish!iuuwi ko ito!found it near kuya manny's haus.


they're building noah's ark =)

Monday, July 7

tawi-tawi and basilan =)

a brown-spotted cow =)

freebies from the farmers =)


rural life tableau


view from the coastal road


tawi-tawi horizon

Tuesday, June 17

furniture shopping with a compulsive buyer also called mom

the reconstruction of our house is almost done so the next task would be stuffing it with decent furniture. we decided to buy new ones because the-morning-after left all the stuff with a stinking smell. my guess is some stuarts made camp in one of the sofas and turned a part of it into their memorial garden. nyahaha.

so there. new furnitures. aight.

last sunday, mom and i headed straight to home ideas for window shopping. my, mom was like a delirious kid who wanted to buy the w.h.o.l.e. store. first stop was at the tiles section. we picked this nice, brick-like tile with earth colors. the guy at the sales section was saying something like its supposed to be an outdoor tile but mom was already dashing to the furniture section. hay!

while looking at the sala sets, my mother saw this cute rocking chair which is "perfect for my nanay!" according to this compulsive buyer. wala yun sa plano but she wanted to buy it "now na!" juskolawrd, nanay ko ba ito?!

yesterday while at work, i received an sms from her.

nabili ko na rocking chair ni nanay nagdown na din ako dun sa sala set yung tiles sa sat na lang paguwi mo


Friday, June 13

its my birthday!

i turned 16 yesterday!wuhoo.

10 years ago, that is.haha.

Wednesday, June 4

of happiness and contentment

"siguro kung naging matalino ako, hindi siguro ako magiging ganito kasaya..."

--- Ploning


i over-analyze things.i am always conscious about gender sensitivity and social equality. i am always frowning about inconsistencies, inefficiencies and everything out of order. i am a control freak.i am oc. big time.

thats why i am hard to please.i get disappointed most of the time.

unhappy.



Tuesday, June 3

contemplating

i want to change careers.

here are my choices:
  • MS in Environmental Science, will probably specialize in any of the following:
>> environmental planning & management
>> community-based resource management
>> protected areas management

  • culinary arts!!! i say no more.

so help me god.